29 top lessons from 29 years of marriage – Bishop Titi-Ofei tells his love story
The Presiding Bishop of the Pleasant Place Church, Bishop Gideon Yofi Titi-Ofei, shares his love experience in marriage after 29 years of marrying his wife, Lady Olivia Titi-Ofei, to his congregants during the celebration of their wedding anniversary.
In his story, he talks about the 29 lessons he has learnt from his 29 years of marriage.
Introduction statement
– It is easier to give to women what they like than what they love
But what keeps marriages going is not what women like but what they love.
Introduction scripture
Song of songs 8:6 NIV
– Love places demand that not everyone is willing to fulfill and here are the 29 top lessons from 29 years of marriage.
1. Good women like men who are achievers but love affectionate men.
-She wants to see what is in your heart not your hands.
-They want to see true love, not trophies
– What keeps the marriage going is to give the womb what she wants- which is you.
2. Good women like men who admire them but love men who adore them.
– They want to love and respect based on their personality, not their physique
– A woman feels like she is bringing something more than sex to the marriage and want to be celebrated.
3. Good women like wealthy men but love worthy men
– They don’t want you to buy their love rather they want you to deserve it.
Some men desire women they don’t deserve.
– Women like it when you get money… but they don’t want you to buy their life with Money.
– If a woman loves you because of your money, then you are married to a prostitute.
- Good women like the boy in you but love the man in you.
-A woman will lose respect for you if you keep behaving foolishly.
5. Good women like men of understanding but love men of undertakings.
– They don’t want to know what you can do; they want to see what you can do.
– Stop wording and start working
– A woman is a mirror of you because she reflects you.
6. Good women like men with charisma but love men with character.
-They know that charm is deceptive but the character is dependable.
– Let your spouse see the character of Christ in you.
7. Good women like sex but they love lovemaking
.– For a woman sex is not a marital duty; it is the expression of the deepest love and commitment.
– There is a software aspect of lovemaking that makes a woman love you.
8. Good women like smart minds but they love good hearts.– They know that a man with a smart mind without a good heart is crafty.
- Good women like knowledgeable men but they love wise men
– They do not want the information in your head but the wisdom in your heart.
10. Good women like Popular men but love polite men.
– They want you to leave your popularity outside the door.
- Good women like men who can talk but love men who listen.
– They respect men who listen before they answer.
12 Good women like men who grow big but love men who grow up
– They will choose maturity over anything you can offer
– Your woman will honor you if you grow up
– Women don’t like fame but a good name.
13. Good women like men with great names but love men with good names.
-They want to be sure which doors your name opens for her children
14. Good women like men who are powerful but love strong men
-Power is positional but strength is emotional
15. Good women like men with money but love men with wealth
-They want men who invest
16. Good women like handsome men but love Harding workmen
– If you marry a lazy man, you are finished
17. Good women like men in church but love men in Christ
-They want you to be born again not born against
18. Good women like men who are bosses but love men who are leaders
- Good women like men who make them happy but love men who bring them joy
– You bring them joy; any other thing makes them happy.
20. Good women like men who are tight but love men who are tithers.
-They encourage their husbands to give to the Lord.
21. Good women like men who are playful but love prayerful men
– They want to have fun with their husbands but also want to have fire in their bones.
22. Good women like men who change them; but love men who celebrate them.– Change is welcome but cracking is not
23. Good women like men who are friendly; but love men who are love family.
-Proverbs 12:26
24. Good women like men who are dependable but love men who depend on God
– They know men who depend on God have a stronger foundation
25. Good women like men they can trust but love men who trust them.
26. Good women like men who are survivors but love successful men.
27. Good women like men who are relevant but love revolutionary men.
28. Good women like men who are Christians but love men who are Christ-like.
29. Good women like men who are earthly-minded but love men who are Heavenly-conscious.
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